"Almost there" and "Are we there yet?"

There's an experience everyone that runs or hikes can relate to. People feel compelled to tell you that you are "almost there". It is a weird thing and it can get irritating. Do they think I don't know where I am? Do they think I'm not going to make it? How do they know what my idea of "almost there" is? What if I am in the moment and don't want to be pulled out of it. What if I relish a hike unfolding on it's own?

It's a different thing if someone asks for information. What I'm talking about is unsolicited, intrusive "help".

Experienced runners and hikers know better and volunteers at events are usually trained so it is typically the inexperienced that are the guilty parties. It's not their fault, they don't know any better. However, it is a common enough thing that it makes one wonder.

When I'm running I try not to think about where I am. I try to focus just on keeping a pace. When I get tired, I try to set short term goals. I focus on a landmark in the near distance. I only start to think about the finish when I can see it. Focusing only on the finish makes it seem harder, farther, tedious. Kids on a car trip will keep asking "are we there yet?". If you tell them that it's a long ways away they'll settle in and enjoy the trip.

"Almost there" and "Are we there yet?" are symptoms of goal obsession.

When I'm running or hiking I always have a goal but other than navigating a trail I generally don't think about the goal until I am there. I am running for exercise and hiking for pleasure. I've learned that only thinking about the goal makes the journey tedious. Also, over emphasizing the goal can make it anticlimactic. Often the coolest part of a hike is not the peak. If you only focus on the summit you will likely miss many opportunities along the way. That little waterfall, an amazing looking old tree, people you meet on the way, ...

The journey is as important as the goal. Sometimes it is more important than the goal. I suspect that this is true of life in general. One could even argue that the journey is more important than the goal.

That doesn't make goals unimportant. I want good exercise value when I run or hike so I have a pace or time in mind. I do want to summit the peak. A goal puts a journey in context. In the long term each individual goal is part of a bigger picture, a longer term or broader goal. Ursula K. LeGuin's "Paradise Lost" is about what can happen when the journey becomes the only thing.

A goal prevents complacency and stagnation. Set goals but don't obsess on them. Don't keep asking "Am I there yet?". Be open to enjoying the little things on the way. Take the time to sit by that little rock pool and cool off.

Get The Big Things Right First

At the Canadian Federal election earlier in the week, Stephen Harper's government was defeated. A couple of days later I was reading an article in the paper and got quite emotional. It was a first for me. I am typically ambivalent about Canadian politics.

Justin Trudeau, the new Primer Minister, promised to undo a wide range of Stephen Harper's decisions. First, to take us out of combat missions in Syria. This was the biggie. To me, our role in the world should not be militaristic. We have a weak military. It's not what we are about.

It's not that I'm against fighting. There are times when we should fight. I just don't see how engaging in active conflict in the Middle East is constructive. I was proud and relieved when we stayed out of the Iraq war.

Then there were Harper's policy changes to muzzle scientists and his stance on the environment. It was hard to believe how we could take such blatant steps backwards in terms of science and fact based decision making. Trudeau has vowed to undo some of these measures and to increase science based leadership with greater transparency than ever before.

I am sure that Trudeau's government will have many failings but I believe that these principled intentions are sincere. Trudeau has already informed Barack Obama of his intent to withdraw Canada from airstrikes in Syria. No pussyfooting around. I like that. I was surprised at how relieved I was.

Values and principles are very important. They substantially define what we are and how people think of us. It is easy to lose sight of the big picture and get too caught up in relatively little things.

We all need to remember to get the big things right. First. Always.

I will be happy with the new Liberal government if they can deliver on a handful of key promises and frankly I am not too worried about the remainder of the long list of promises. Some will be met, some won't. Whether they are or aren't won't substantially affect my quality of life or how the world sees our great country.

Weight and Health

Being generally healthy and having a healthy weight is actually very simple. There are three things to remember:

• Eat Less
• Eat Better
• Exercise More

It is really that simple. The hard part is in our heads.

Eat Less. If you are overweight, you are eating too much food. It is very difficult to exercise enough to bring your weight down if you are eating too much. Exercise is important but you have to reduce portion sizes and snacks. Avoid sugar and carbohydrates. Avoid pop/energy drinks. Drink water instead. 

Eat Better. Avoid junk foods, fast foods, processed foods. They have way more fat, salt and chemicals than you want. Buy raw foods. Vegetables, fruit, quality meats. Hot dogs are junk food. Flavored yogurts are junk food. Chips of any kind are junk food. Anything with added sugar is junk food. 

Exercise More. Exercise burns calories and improves your general health - heart, lungs, everything. You don't have to enjoy it. Just commit and do it. Running is fantastic. There is no way to cheat. If you can't run, walk until you can run. The more lean muscle mass you have the more calories your body burns. If you are trying to lose weight, consider weights or yoga. Almost anyone can do it, it only takes 20 min, three times a week to create a healthy exercise habit. Feeling healthy is a pretty powerful thing - you might even learn to enjoy exercising.

Can it be that simple?

Yes. That's all there is too it. Seriously, there is nothing complicated about it.

The challenge is purely mental. We like convenience foods, we like comfort foods, we like sugar, we like fries. We like to relax. All are habit forming. It takes discipline to maintain good eating and life habits.

There is no way to cheat. There is no magic pill. There is no super supplement. Daily TV shows don't tell you what you need to know. There's no money to be made in "Eat Less, Eat Better, Exercise More". It doesn't need a daily hour long show. That's 240 hours a year. Who wants to have these three things repeated for 240 hours a year.

That's the problem with the daily shows. They have to talk a load of nonsense to entertain and fill the time slot. If there is any good advice it is lost in the mire of misinformation, disinformation and filler. It's just entertainment - of the worst kind - it gives the impression that there's an easy way to be healthy. There is no easy way. There is no cheat. Spend the hour exercising and you will be way better off.

This advice doesn't even need a book. Lifestyle books have the same problem. To sell they have to have a certain page count. In the process of filling a page count the message is diluted or lost. Who want's to pay 13.95 for a 4 page book. Actually, it would be an interesting experiment to try to publish one.

It is a lifestyle change. that means breaking some current habits and making new ones.

It takes time to program a new habit. You have to stick with it for at least a month, maybe as long as three months. This is the time that you have to pay attention to what you are doing. If you allow yourself 3 indiscretions a day (sugar, junk food, etc.) you will have to count. This is the hard part. You have to be honest with yourself. Don't try to do too much at once. Baby steps, but you have to stick with them. If you do, after you have programmed a new habit it will be much easier to maintain.

The TV reality show Biggest Loser is all about reprogramming. The contestants participate for long enough to be reprogrammed and they have a very strict reinforcement - if they cheat they will fall below the bar and be sent home. They loose massive weight and many of them leave the show and continue to live healthy lives. It would be an amazing public service if they would let people at home participate online.

If you are overweight it is because you eat too much. Period. Too much.

If you don't feel healthy, energetic, it is probably because you are eating bad food and not exercising.

A small portion of the population has a real disease or condition that needs proper treatment. If this applies to you then you need to see a real doctor. However, most people that just generally feel crappy feel that way because they are overweight, eat crappy food and don't exercise.

Here is an amusing but sensible video by wounded combat veteran Derek Weida (be warned it is very politically incorrect but also very on point). Personally, I am refreshed to hear someone cutting through to the heart of the matter so frankly.

Take charge of your life. Don't believe anyone that is trying to sell you something. Don't believe anyone that is offering a short cut. Eat Less, Eat Better and Exercise More. That's all there is too it.